Minggu, 23 Januari 2011

come and go

people come and go.

if someone's coming then someday they might be gone, by default.

by divorce, resign, escape, broke up, death, and so on.
people have too many reasons to go, same as they have it to come.
we are destined to be a part and apart in one simply story-of life.

why don't God just let us to be a part for the rest of our life?

simply, only because God wants to show us of how much they're worth for us.

then again, i spent my 1st of january in condolence.
for the others, 1st of january used to be some new beginnings of a new life, bla bla bla..
as mine, "the end of someone that means something for me"-for these recent 2 years.

the thing is, it doesn't really matter about how people come and go.
the one that matters, is what happened after they're gone.
what's left?
good things..bad things..or something that hasn't done yet.

life is a series of an unpredictable event, and an unexplainable, as well.

so i sat in front of a house which a friend of mine was sleeping and wouldn't ever gonna wake up.
i saw people around me were chattering one to another and felt pity on the family.

then i recalled as much as i could at the moment of people i've met and what happened after they're gone.

people may come and go.
but how we want to be remembered, depends on our decision during our lifetime.

"life is like a book, when the story ends, there'll be another book to be published, then might be some popular books to be a best seller--but only a 'good book' that will win the pulitzer"

so, how do you want to be remembered?

Sabtu, 22 Januari 2011

going the distance

the title above as the same as one of the new film which played by Drew Barrymore and Justin Long.

it tells us about a story between two people in a long distance relationship (LDR).

recently, i just moved into a new work place and found out that i'm surrounded by many people in a long distance relationship. this is a common case, actually, but when you're into a relationship (serious one) or marriage, it becomes something different and full of commitment.

many people have a successful LDR and many don't.
otherwise, many people don't do LDR.

hesitation brings you to the unfaithful relationship.
while temptation is everywhere, people.

you might be gone to a city and have a 'life' there, which contains with some new friends to hang out, new troubles that drown you and keep you busy with yourself, new things you might like, until new 'temptation'-s you might meet.

and so on.

believe me, people changes and they might seek for something better than 'now'.
whether it fits with their requirements or maybe it suits with something in their mind.

never judge those people, because you might be in the same place like them.

but here's the thing:
"distance is only a way to make people apart to realise that they're a part"

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