going the distance

the title above as the same as one of the new film which played by Drew Barrymore and Justin Long.

it tells us about a story between two people in a long distance relationship (LDR).

recently, i just moved into a new work place and found out that i'm surrounded by many people in a long distance relationship. this is a common case, actually, but when you're into a relationship (serious one) or marriage, it becomes something different and full of commitment.

many people have a successful LDR and many don't.
otherwise, many people don't do LDR.

hesitation brings you to the unfaithful relationship.
while temptation is everywhere, people.

you might be gone to a city and have a 'life' there, which contains with some new friends to hang out, new troubles that drown you and keep you busy with yourself, new things you might like, until new 'temptation'-s you might meet.

and so on.

believe me, people changes and they might seek for something better than 'now'.
whether it fits with their requirements or maybe it suits with something in their mind.

never judge those people, because you might be in the same place like them.

but here's the thing:

"distance is only a way to make people apart to realise that they're a part"